help me please

[elena gilbert]

hi guys.this is gonna be long and i know it.but if you read it and say something, like a solution,or just comforting, it'll mean a lot to me, and might help me get through this hell i've been living in for the last...well, i don't know how long.so here's my story:
once upon a time(!) i had this friend and she really was my BFF...we did fight but it would just end soon enough.she really was kind, and caring and...very special.the best friend you can imagine to have.but as the time passed by, it changed things.changed her.she became this grumpy not-kind,picking-on-me kinda girl and freaked me out!she kept on starting arguments on small tiny things and and called me liar, accused me of stuff, like starting the fights she started.i liked her enough to apologize for the things she did, and tried to make things right.i handled it and said nothing.but there was just so much i could take.i just had to stop eventually.i told her about what she did and told her that i couldn't take it anymore.she just...put up another fight and told me everything is my fault.she said that even if she had done those, she did them because she wanted to and because she was able to and that it felt good for her...so our friendship fell apart that moment.
now every time i think of her, i think of the person she used to be instead of the person she is now and that's how i miss her.i miss her even though i know that i shouldn't and that going back to being friends with her will only hurt me more.and yet, i can't stop crying all the time and missing her....what do you think i should do?
and you know what the funny part is?some times i even hate her!but that doesn't last and i really don't know what to do!i wanna get over her and FORGET her forever or HATE her!!!!!!just tell me how!

[miley smart]

hi elena.you know that i've seen her and i know her.it might sound stupid but i think she has a serious problem in her brain.and i'm not joking.as you know,she changes herself once in a minute and you see her when she's like this good person,but after a few minutes,you see she's starting a fight.that's not normal and if she wanted to be your real friend,she wouldn't come up with a fight with no reason(except from her own reasons which i will never find out).and you see,whenever you two had a long friendly conversation,there was a fight coming after that.i would tell u to be her friend but not more because it could've troubled.but now,i think u should stay away from her.i've never told anyone,i've lost 5 of my best friends of all the time and all i know is that people change and you should deal with that,not wasting your time.sorry because my answer is almost as long as your so_called question(it's mostly like a story,just like my answer)

[elena gilbert]

thank you so much for answering me miley, i've read it all like 3 times and i agree with every word you said.i just wish i knew how to deal with all of this....

[miley smart]

hi elena.thanks about your opinion about what i wrote and,you know,i've been through this kind of situations a few times and as i said,i lost like 4 or 5 of my best friends of all the time.that's exactly what i know:you shouldn't deal with that,time does it for you.you'll know it yourself.but i understand how you feel.U should know this:wherever ella is,ella and i got your back

[Micalah Jernigan]

well first of all confront her ass and tell her ur sick of how she treats you and tell her when she changes you can be freind or just not be her freind at all

[elena gilbert]

i did tell her that we can be friends when she changes micalah and she told me to go to hell....

[elena gilbert]

thank you miley i'll always remember that! <3 thanks a lot

[Cailin Neely]

u should just move on find another bff

[Micalah Jernigan]

move on and find a best FREIND one that treats u goo!

[elena gilbert]

how micalah?how?if i knew how to move on i wouldn't even make a thread....